You’ve got dice!

If you read Cassandra’s blog, you may have seen her post a few months ago about entering sweepstakes. When she finds a sweepstakes that may also be of interest to me, she shares the link. While the odds are better than winning the lottery, I never really expect to win something. So it was a pleasant surprise about a month ago to open an email saying I was a potential winner for one of the sweepstakes I had entered.

To be clear, legitimate “you won something” messages are entirely different from spam versions. The sweepstakes I had entered and the specific prize were mentioned in the email, along with detailed instructions for claiming the prize and the deadline for doing so. Presumably because there was a minimum age for entering the sweepstakes, a copy of my ID was required along with an affidavit.

Given the title of this post, you can guess what part of the prize was… dice! These are described as a “branded set of 7 liquid core RPG dice”… pretty cool looking, aren’t they? So far, the d20 has been rolling pretty well for me on this year’s Quest Calendar.

A wine stopper with a fancy dragon claw top

But that’s not all! The prize package also included a “branded dragon claw shaped wine stopper” and a (not pictured, cause I couldn’t get a good photo) “branded wine tote”.

How’s that for a random prize package that’s totally appropriate for me?

Thyroid: the Stabbening

When I had my MRI in November, other than the arthritis, the results turned up something odd about my thyroid. After a discussion with my primary doctor in December, I scheduled a thyroid ultrasound, which confirmed that I have “nodules” on and around my thyroid. This resulted in a specialist visit to see an otolaryngologist, also known as an ENT (Ears Nose Throat).

After an initial meet & greet – which I question the need for when the ultrasound results recommended an “FNA” – Fine Needle Aspiration – I scheduled the FNA, or thyroid biopsy, to pull some tissue from the nodules. Alas, our medical system is weighed down by bureaucracy.

The base of my neck with slight scabbing from the Fine Needle Aspiration (FNA) for my thyroid

Bureaucracy aside, the doctor’s bedside manner was good, talking me through the process before starting and throughout. I was warned that the local numbing agent would burn going in – it did. After that, I only felt pressure as each needle went in, and then got poked around a few times. I’m not sure the poking around part was really mentioned, though I suppose it still just counts as pressure. It reminded me a little of a root canal, when the dentist is poking into the tooth repeatedly to make sure they got all of the root and you only feel the pressure of the poking.

I was warned that the results could take up to 7 business days; they took 5, and I am relieved to say my thyroid nodules are benign.

Temperature projects update

2025 is done!* 2026 projects are progressing!

My 2025 temperature blanket stretching across the sofa in an array of colors, with a skein of yarn for the border dangling on one end.

OK, the * is because I still have the border to finish on the 360-day granny square blanket I started in mid-February 2025. The final day in that count fell during Capricon, so I finished the squares, adding the squares to the row, and then attaching the row to the overall blanket after we got home from the convention. I have started the border using the same gradient white to black yarn that I used to join, knowing that I have an unstarted skein still. My approach at the moment is to get a row of single crochet around the entire blanket – which lengthwise stretches across the sofa – and then determine whether I have enough yarn for a fancier second row.

The beginnings of my 2026 temperature blanket - a completed strip for January, with 31 linked chains and a white border, and a partial strip for the first half of February, with the beginnings of the white border.

The 2026 blanket is definitely less of a time investment than the 2025 one – each link, even with my February decision to start on the border as I add each link, which helps orient them correctly, takes 10 minutes or less. I’m super excited about how this will look once I’ve connected multiple months. That part has to wait until the full month is finished, since there’s a second row on the border that can’t be added until the entire month is complete. I can’t even make the filler links – 3 gray ones for February – until I finish out the month, since they connect in as they’re crocheted.

My 2026 Temperature Tree, an embroidery project that encompasses the entire calendar year.

The temperature tree is also progressing nicely. I feel like each day takes longer than this year’s blanket, but that may be inaccurate. I still have to think about what I’m doing for the embroidery, which is mostly not the case for the daily links I’m crocheting. I can multitask the daily crocheted project while watching or listening to something, which probably gives me impression that it’s going faster than it really is.

Overall, these are both fairly quick daily projects, so I have started another (side? main?) crochet project as well. That’s a gift, so it won’t show up here until it’s been handed to the recipient. Actually, that’s the case for a couple upcoming projects, so there may be some project photo dumps later in the year.

Goblins and art show and boxes, oh my!

Capricon 46 has come and, alas, gone, as is the way of annual conventions. I had waves of free time alternating with “why did I schedule myself like this” intervals… again, that’s kind of the way of conventions. The meal times I left myself were not necessarily convenient, except for breakfast, since most convention scheduling starts around 10am.

My entire display at Capricon 46's art show, an array of painted and crocheted items.

One of the first items on my checklist, after checking into the convention and hotel, was setting up my display in the Art Show. The bulk of my items were displayed on half a table (mental note: next year, get the whole table… bid sheets take up space), theoretically shared with another artist. As it happens, the other artist only sent items that needed hanging, so they were on the grid above my selection.

"Super Cabra", a crocheted goat wearing a red cape and holding a rainbow flag. He's standing on a purple cushion next to a small stack of multi-colored bricks. The small purple cushion is next to an actual purple brick standing on end, with Capricon 46 showing on the side.

“Super Cabra,” however, was my Artist’s Challenge piece, and went in a separate space with other competing contributions, making it easy for attendees to see the choices they were voting on. There were three this year, all meeting the challenge requirements: “incorporate a goat (the convention’s mascot) and three of the following items: a flag, a hand, a brick, a broken robot or computer, or the color purple.”

As with my other pieces, “Super Cabra” had a bid sheet for people to purchase or – had he received 3 bids – send to auction. The Artist’s Challenge prize – a purple brick with “Capricon 46” on one long end, “Rise of the Humans” (this year’s theme) on the opposite, and goat head on one side – came home with me, while “Super Cabra” went home with the winning bidder.

Much of the convention was normal for me: I hosted a Stitch & Bitch, where people bring craft projects and chat while working on them; I volunteered in a couple places including at the art auction; I helped a little at Box Fort (more about that below). What was new this year were a couple “actual play” role-playing games – RPGs with an audience – and I was delighted to participate in a one-page RPG called “ShenaniGoblins,” where goblins working for the ominously named Dark Lord scramble to correct whatever they messed up on their assigned mission. Apparently setting buildings on fire and flinging goblins from trebuchets are fairly common in this setting, and our game was no exception.

My main duty at Box Fort is the Sunday morning collapse of the boxes for recycling, though I help sometimes with set-up and door duties. I did realize though, looking back at my previous posts about Box Fort, that I haven’t really explained convention parties here. To be clear, each convention has its own rules – if they officially allow parties – and each party may have separate rules too. And both of those must follow the rules established by the location hosting the convention.

A stack of collapsed boxes with some unflattened boxes in another large box nearby.

In the case of Capricon, which is fresher in my mind than sister convention WindyCon (where Box Fort also had a party), the convention’s Code of Conduct explicitly requires all parties to be coordinated with the Party Liaison, who among other duties, assigns the appropriate rooms for each party based on preference and availability. The book launch party doesn’t usually need a suite; Box Fort and Barfleet (among several others) prefer to have the extra space.

While the parties are all technically private – not run by the convention – coordinating through the convention keeps the party hosts in both the convention’s and the hotel’s good graces, ensuring that the hosts and people attending the parties are all subject to the aforementioned Code of Conduct. This is also a reason to turn away normal people who may be staying at the hotel and happen to stumble into the party hallway (they may have seen the flyers display as the exited the elevator)… they haven’t agreed to the Code of Conduct, and if they misbehave, it’s your problem as the party host.

Some of those parties may be completely private: my bachelorette party, for example, was hosted many years ago at a Capricon, coordinated through the convention to have a suite not on the party floors. (There was also a wedding on-site that weekend, using a much larger area in programming space.) Some may be intermittently private: Barfleet shuts down “early” on Saturday (if you consider midnight early) to become a members-only event, and several parties will “soft-close” late at night as they prepare for the next day.

The difference between “open” – for anyone to walk in – and “soft-close” is also a difference between private and open parties: having the door fully open, sometimes with signage and people standing at the door to card partygoers, versus just propping it open with the security bolt, like when you dash down the hall to fill the ice bucket. If you don’t know the person with the barely open door, you don’t walk in; any conventiongoer (well, depending on party rules) is welcome to walk in and introduce themselves at the party with an open door.

Any open party serving alcohol has to verify your age, which is done either at the door or the bar; at the door typically gets you a stylish wristband that will last the rest of the evening. (Any private party hopefully knows your age, since they invited you.) Some parties will also restrict admission to people who have achieved drinking age or better, reducing the workload for their bartenders. You’ll still get a wristband, they just won’t need to check for it at the bar; they’ll check it at the door if you leave and come back in later. (For clarity, each party typically has a different colored wristband than the other parties, and different for each night as well.)

By the end of Saturday night, partygoers have usually perused the various parties and scanned the QR code to vote in the various party award categories for the year. This year, those voting categories were best mocktail, best alcoholic drink, and best overall party. And yes, Box Fort won the best overall party this year… by a single vote.

Avoiding hibernation

It can be tempting for those of us in cold climates to stay indoors most of the winter, relishing the technology that heats our homes. Several locations that you would generally count as outdoor eagerly provide opportunities to visit when it’s cold, with a variety of both indoor and outdoor activities.

A snow-covered pond with grasses in front and a variety of trees in the distance.

Morton Arboretum, for example, hosted a Chocolate Weekend last Saturday and Sunday, featuring a variety of local chocolate vendors – who knew there were so many? – many of whom were offering samples. That, not surprisingly, was an indoor event… convincing vendors to stand outside in 25 degree weather would probably be difficult. (Well, at least after the Christkindlmarket season.)

They have a chili cook-off at the end of the month, and assorted specialty food and drink events including a “Winter Whiskey Tasting” in March. They also have outdoor events, such as a Conifer Walk, and they offer snowshoe and ski rentals when there’s four or more inches of snow on the ground. Not that you’ll want to use those shoes or skis on the mostly untouched snow in this photo – that’s actually a pond. The only footprints on that clearly belonged to a small animal.

Similarly, Brookfield Zoo offers an assortment of events throughout the winter. Both locations have holiday lights leading up to New Year’s, both offer Valentine-themed dinners, and as things warm up, Brookfield Zoo is hosting a lantern festival some evenings from mid-March to mid-May. Brookfield has many indoor exhibits as well, so it’s reasonable to spend a few minutes outdoors viewing the animals that enjoy the cold before popping into a building and shedding the coat and gloves for a while.

What other outdoor venues do you enjoy visiting this time of year?

An eclectic selection for Capricon’s art show

I’ve mentioned Capricon here a few times, particularly last year when I volunteered as co-chair. I have far less work for the convention this year, as a staff member, panelist, and volunteer, which means I had time leading up to the convention to craft things for the Art Show. Traditionally, most of my art for sale has been crocheted items, and this year is no exception to some crocheted items being available. That said, I’ve been experimenting with watercolors for a bit now, so I decided to include some paintings as well. Three of the thirteen pieces that I’m listing are pictured below… come to the convention to see the others.

Thoughts on The Grimoire Grammar School Parent Teacher Association

The Grimoire Grammar School Parent Teacher Association is quite the handful for a book name, and I’m delighted that this book by Caitlin Rozakis lived up to that handful.

Our local library typically hosts summer and winter “reading” challenges, providing sheets to track your checkouts and rate them. Anything available through the library counts, whether books (in various formats), games, DVDs, or even “how to” kits that they have available. I’ve found these challenges offer a great opportunity to explore what’s available at the library, from movies we haven’t seen yet to picking up books off the new fiction or the recommended by staff shelves.

That’s how I found The Grimoire Grammar School Parent Teacher Association, on the new fiction shelf, as it was just published in May 2025. The basic premise is that Vivian and Daniel are struggling with their integration into a magical community after their daughter, Aria, was bitten by a werewolf. As mundanes, Vivian and Daniel are entirely out of their depth, lacking so much magical knowledge that the rest of the community takes for granted. This is, of course, an ideal perspective for telling such a story, as the readers are exposed to the worldbuilding along with the characters.

Having relocated to be closer to the exclusive Grimoire Grammar School, one of a handful of magical schools in North America, Vivian, as former accountant turned stay-at-home mom, throws herself into the school’s PTA and the parents’ WhatsApp group in an attempt to fit in. To her dismay, she discovers that the prophecy of doom overshadowing this hidden magical town sounds distressingly like it’s about Aria, and the town’s welcome becomes remarkably chilly as more signs of the Reckoning emerge. In the midst of that mess, she and Daniel struggle to prepare for the required testing that will allow Aria to remain at the school, particularly after discovering that other magical schools rarely mix different types of magical creatures and are much less likely to admit a werewolf with human parents. Navigating parent cliques and suppressed controversies from the school’s past, Vivian struggles to find where she fits and how she can express her experience to her mundane therapist without her sanity being questioned.

This is a refreshingly unique take on magic schools and how people interpret the concept of the Chosen one from a cryptic prophecy to their own advantage. And while it’s a standalone novel (for now?), our library has the author’s other book, Dreadful, which also sounds like a distinctive approach to a fantasy setting.

Temperature Tree and Temperature Blanket: Scavenger Edition

Back in October, I mentioned the discovery of a Temperature Blanket group on Facebook, and some related ideas, like a Temperature Tree embroidery kit. Since my embroidery skills are not at the same level as my crochet skills, I went ahead and bought a kit, which has the tree pre-printed on the canvas. As this is strictly a calendar year project, I went ahead and started it, despite not having finished my blanket, which is running from mid-February to mid-February. One of my New Year’s Day activities was to organize my embroidery floss colors for the tree, grouped in 5 degree temperature changes. I have a second organizer – also labeled with the temperature ranges – for the section of thread I’ve cut off for use.

  • A 2026 temperature tree embroidery kit with a leaf to embroider for each day of the year. The canvas is partially obscured by the embroidery floss on an organizer, labelled in 5 degree ranges for each of the 20 colors.
  • Ten months of a granny square temperature blanket laid out on the living room floor with Arwen, a white and black cat, inspecting it.
  • Thirteen crocheted circles in a mix of colors linked together.

The second photo above shows the 2025 temperature blanket as of late December, with Arwen walking on it and showing how large it is. There are three more rows – another 45 days – to be added after that photo.

A sensible person probably wouldn’t start yet another crochet project while still working on a project that size. But as people were posting their year end blanket photos, I saw one that jumped out as a pattern I wanted to try, and it will be significantly smaller than the 2025 sofa-encompassing blanket. The pattern links crocheted circles together in lines, connecting them again with a border, so I decided it would be a fun way to track the 2026 temperatures. The third photo above shows my progress so far.

Why is that the Scavenger Edition? Like many practitioners of yarn crafts, I have what some (particularly those who don’t partake) might describe as an excessive quantity of yarn, and as it happens, I just reorganized my collection after purchasing a yarn organizer that hangs over an inside door. (This does not hold all of my yarn; only my current projects’ yarn.) Rather than buying more yarn, I decided to use only yarn I already own, with the understanding that the selected yarn needed to be similar in size and texture for this to work. Like last year’s blanket and the temperature tree, I set up a spreadsheet to track the daily temperature and the color ranges to track what I need to do and mark when I’ve completed it. Yes, that does mean that I’m currently updating three spreadsheets daily as I complete each task. In a month, that will drop to two!

If you’ll excuse me, I need to go work on the dragon I’m crocheting with yarn that was gifted to me at the holidays. It’s a side project.

Setting my 2026 Side Quests

What are Side Quests, you ask? Well, I used to refer to them as Goals, but really, “Quest” is more fun as a concept, at least for us gamers. I don’t accomplish every quest I give myself, and sometimes I add quests during the year based on circumstances. For example, the year I got laid off, getting a new job became my highest priority quest.

For the most part, I try to spread my quests across various categories that I’ve deemed important, such as Garden, Fitness, and Finance (among others). Obviously, these will vary by person… one of my categories is “Garden,” which may be entirely irrelevant to you. An important factor is always making sure these quests are SMART – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-based. The SMART aspects helps in planning for achievable goals rather than setting your sights on something that may not be feasible in the time period you’re looking at. To use martial arts as an example, a white belt working towards a black belt in an achievable quest, but setting a deadline of a single year is not likely to be attainable.

I find that tracking my quests is also useful, so at the beginning of the year, I set up a document on my Google Drive listing them. Over the course of the year, I pop back into the document to make notes and mark when I complete items. Then at the end of the year, I copy that document for the layout as my base for the next year’s quests. In some cases, quests that I didn’t get to may be carried over to the next year, like some of the sorting and furniture rearranging that I didn’t get to in 2025. I’m kind of in a house organizing phase at the moment, so if I keep it up, I may complete that quest early this year.

What do you want to accomplish in 2026 and how do you track it?

Thoughts on the Universal Yums Advent Calendar

As I mentioned in my previous post about Universal Yums, we purchased their Advent Calendar for this holiday season. Unlike the location-specific boxes, this was entirely sweet: candy and chocolate, as indicated on the box cover, and from a variety of locations. The back of the box (not pictured) has the entire ingredient list for all 24 varieties of candies, particularly useful if dealing with allergies.

  • Universal Yums Around the World in 24 Days! candy & chocolate advent calendar - front of box
  • Universal Yums Around the World in 24 Days! candy & chocolate advent calendar - inside of box, with different patterns on each day
  • Universal Yums Around the World in 24 Days! candy & chocolate advent calendar - elimination bracket, showing the number (24) I selected as the winner.

The box opens up to reveal (not surprisingly for an Advent Calendar) 24 squares to open leading up to Christmas. Each one is decorated in a way that relates to the contents. For example, the box labelled 1 has illustrated pomegranates, and the candy was a pomegranate-flavored jelly candy from Greece. Each square contained 4 candies (except for that one with 5… yay, us!), mostly of the same flavor, though a couple squares were described as “assorted flavors” and came with a couple different flavors of the same candy to try.

The accompanying book included the bracket pages and information about each candy in order. My one complaint here is that the candies weren’t numbered on the information pages, which would have been useful for the elimination bracket. There is a QR code on the brackets pages to a PDF version, so each person participating can have their own copy to work through. This was helpful; our brackets diverged in several places, and ultimately resulted in different winners.

In my case, the finalists were a Lithuanian blackcurrant and melon-flavored candy and an Italian multi-colored chocolate square that included dark, milk, white, and hazelnut chocolate. Despite the inclusion of white chocolate, the “Novi Cuadro Quattro” was the winner in my bracket. I liked all of the candies to some degree – even the salty licorice caramel – and will be delighted to see what their future years’ Advent Calendars include.